Thursday, October 26, 2023

Plans to Move - in 29 days

My seller has made her arrangements for moving out on Tuesday before Thanksgiving -- Just four weeks away. I will be moving on Thursday the 24th, the day after Thanksgiving. I have the movers hired and now it's a matter of preparing and waiting. It's a relief to finally have the final phase of this big transition in my life scheduled. The goal is in sight.

The seller is having cleaners in to clean the house after she moves, so I will be able to move right in. She's a fastidious housekeeper and the house is already immaculate. I'm sure it will get dirty when they move all the furniture and boxes in. But once everything is inside, I can begin figuring out where I want to keep things, and clean and arrange as I go. I look forward to that phase. I will be in my own house with my own privacy and my own time schedule. I can work at my own pace and get comfortable in my new surroundings.

But for now, I need to move out of the comfy big bedroom for my last few weeks here at my son's. The grandma from Brazil arrives on Sunday and I want her to move right into the bedroom where she will stay, possibly for a couple of months. I am halfway out the door anyway, it should be me who moves all my stuff downstairs for this short term. It will work out, I'm sure. This is a busy household, and I don't want to get in anyone's way, so I will keep my stuff in a small living room they use very little and sleep on a foldout bed. I'll do my best to keep it all tidied up so it's not too obnoxious. I'm sure they will be relieved when I do finally move all my stuff out of here. I've stashed things all over the place -- things I didn't want to risk having the movers handle, or things that I didn't want to store in the storage unit. It will free up a lot of space again in this lovely house.

The kids and grandkids have all been so good to me and accommodating while I've been here. It has made this time much easier. And, honestly, with so much going on, the time has passed quickly. I make dinner many nights, clean up the kitchen, do errands and drive my grandson, and take care of the dogs. I still have time to watch some of my streaming services, but not as much, really. I'll be doing more of that when winter sets in and I have my cozy TV room all set up.

I've loved living in a two-dog house. Frankie and Sophie are such opposites in size and personalities. But they play together and get along so well. They are always doing something to make me laugh. We will all miss having a two-dog house when I move. Especially the dogs, I think.





 

Now, I'll count the days and look forward to Thanksgiving more than I ever have before.



Sunday, October 15, 2023

A homeowner once again

 On Thursday, I signed the papers to close on the house purchase, and wired a large sum of money to pay in cash. On Friday, the sale was funded and I officially became a new homeowner once again.

The former owner will stay in the house until December 1st and will rent from me during that time. I'm very happy to report she did find a house near her daughter and may even move out as early as Thanksgiving weekend. But that still puts me around the 1st for my own move. Now I have to do what I need to do to get through the next six or seven weeks or so. I will be vacating my current bedroom for the grandma from Brazil, who will arrive in two weeks. I'll move into the little formal living room that isn't used much and will sleep on a pull out bed. I insisted on this arrangement as I have enjoyed the big bedroom for 10 weeks now and I can tolerate a few weeks on the pullout. It's all good, knowing there is an end in sight. 

The pressure is off now. I don't have to scan real estate postings and lose sleep wondering what the future holds. I am mentally moving into my new place -- arranging the furniture, planting flowers, sipping coffee on the patio.