As sad as I felt yesterday, I still went outside and planted some new plants and worked around the yard. I have learned that hard physical work does wonders for one's mental health. And I can't allow myself to become depressed. Since I am the one person I depend on the most, I have to take care of myself.
My sister commented on my ability to cope and continue with work, home, and family responsibilities through this ordeal when many may have caved under the distressing and confusing circumstances. I told her part of what kept me going was the thought that this was an opportunity for me to show my adult children how you cope when life hands you a crisis. You don't fall apart, you walk bravely through the fire. Everyone must face difficult times in this life. If my sons and daughter and their spouses have gained strength themselves by watching me, if they are more prepared when they face their own serious trouble, then this effort was well worth it.
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