Thursday, September 11, 2008

Passages

We lost a favorite uncle this week to cancer. He was 80 and had been ill for several years. The funeral is tomorrow. I'm trying to be the big sister and organize a few things with the family. Ordered the flowers (got teary just trying to tell them what to put on the card), arranged to drive mom and dad to the funeral so they don't try to drive themselves. Deb offered to drive them tonight to the viewing. That's really all that was needed. I emailed everyone about the cost. Email sure makes things easy - saves many phone calls. I know it will be a long day tomorrow. Ogden to Garland, to Newton, back to Garland, back to Ogden, and then home. I don't like funerals as they make me feel so sad and cry too much. This uncle had a sense of humor, never met a practical joke he didn't like, and when we were kids built amazing snow forts at grandma's house. I don't want to cry remembering him. But I will. We all will.

2 comments:

Terolleeq said...

Becky I am so sorry to hear about your Uncle. Parting is never easy, but you will see him again some day and he will be joking and happy. My prayers are with you and your family. Hang in there. With love Terol

bekkieann said...

Terrol, thanks so much. It's good to hear from you. How are all of you doing? I'll send you an email so we can chat outside this page.